Refined by Grace

Refined by Grace

“Don’t Squander Time, for that’s the stuff life is made of.” – By Benjamin Franklin

Refined by Grace

Hey! I want to share a bit about my journey. I recently reconnected with my cousin after a long time apart. He made me realise that he thought I was ghosting him after finding Christ and quitting drinking. My drinking friends thought this too.

Let me take you back to what I was like BC. I was wild! Every day was a party, and Savannah Dry was my best bud crowned with tequila shots. Who needs water, right? Life was one big dance floor, and I was the queen of the night—dancing on tables, capturing the crowd’s attention, then crashing hard. That was my existence.

The truth is, partying was consuming me. I looked good on the dance floor, but when the music stopped, I found myself hiding away, even as I longed for real life. I didn’t recognise myself anymore—all I knew was booze. I was drowning and desperately needed a lifeline, yet I couldn’t fathom life without a drink in hand. What did sober people even do?

Growing up in a pastor’s home, I knew God could help me. So, I called on Him: “One glass on date night and special occasions is all I need, God! Save me from this dependency!” This cry was after many failed attempts to quit. God, in His mercy, responded, “No, my girl, you’re going bigger than that.” Suddenly, the urge to drink vanished! Alcohol became unappealing. The fog lifted, and the radar for liquor stores? (I had talent for spotting liquor stores) Poof! Gone! It was a miraculous change.

What was happening to me?

I realized it was the alcohol clouding my joy all along. I discovered that I am genuinely a lively person! I love to dance, live, and be present for my loved ones. I wanted to be that and somehow I thought I needed the alcohol to be that. Now, I can genuinely embrace these moments, sleep in, take care of myself, and live life free. I can dance my heart out and feel great the next day. I’m not just Naomi anymore; I’m Naomi refined by grace.

I learned that life wasn’t some distant goal but right in front of me the whole time. I had three amazing kids, and I was missing out on their childhood! I began to appreciate the beauty in the everyday—the simple joys and conversations with my husband I had neglected. It felt like waking up from a long sleep.

Adjusting took time; I was used to escaping, so staying present felt strange. But every moment has been worth it. I met those who have always lived this way and learned so much from them. My relationships deepened, and I felt truly connected to the world. I can’t believe I was missing all this beauty!

Oh, Grace! It washed over me like a cleansing wave, wiping my slate clean. Every mistake, even the ones I feared on this new path, was forgiven. The weight of my past felt lifted. There were no expectations or pressure to perform for God. Instead, I felt an unwavering assurance of my worthiness and unconditional love igniting a deep desire within me to lead a better life. I was broken, but Grace began to heal my deep cracks. A peace I never knew existed settled over me, finally allowing me to sleep and truly be.

Life on this side is amazing! There’s no condemnation here; my love for you has only grown. Don’t mind that I talk differently or that my drinks have changed. I will always listen, and if you want to hear about this incredible life I’m living now, I’m eager to share.

I’ve walked that path, and I know this side of life reveals a whole new world of possibilities.

Ready to explore this chapter with me? Reach out on Tumblr or leave a comment below. Let’s experience more joy, energy, and deeper connections together.

Peace & Blessings

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